Post edited 12:43 pm – November 13, 2010 by Hljothlegur
Agree that I can be a provocateur, but my intent is not to troll. If I disagree with someone, I want to understand why they think the way they do. If I can push them to explain their process, I often learn something new, or I might even have my mind changed, but I do want to see what the chain of thought is, because then I feel I really understand.
If I pushed a person, I probably found their thinking interesting, and have assessed their intelligence as higher rather than lower, so it's not an intentional insult if I push to have info filled in, even if it comes off as me being a jerk. Lastly, I'm clueless. 99 44/100ths% pure cluelessness. I am the Ivory Soap of not getting a clue.
By logical extension, then, I must be a troll and not be clued to being one? *puzzlement* Possibly even a jerk.
Proof my thinking, please – About "Lying," I am assuming that there are two conditions when someone thinks they saw one line as the match, but said they saw another – either
1. they figured they must be seeing it wrong, so better go with what the group has already said is the right answer, or
2. they decide to agree with the group even though they can see that the group is incorrect.
It seems to me that 1. involves questioning your own perceptions, which is not necessarily a bad thing, as you stated. I see things wrong all the time. My brain reads signs, especially on certain color backgrounds, completely wrong, often obscenely wrong. So I can easily imagine myself committing act 1.
It seems to me that 2. is social lying, which is not necessarily a bad thing either. Several times every week I agree with someones idiotic conversational gambit designed to be on common ground, even though I disagree utterly. A stranger in the elevator is smiling, rocking back and forth on his heels, says isn't it wonderful we are having such cheery sunshine this week. He is being nice, but I hate hot weather and the sunshine gives me a headache. So I offer a social lie so as not to be rude: I smile, nod, and say, yes, it's warmed up nicely. I have deceived the man about the wonderfulness of warm weather. I lied. Does your new haircut look good? Oh, yes, I lie, looks fine. Social lying makes the world work.
Do you mean I just insulted Japanese culture. Yes, I probably did.
Japan, I apologize. Might I compensate by noting that culturally the Japanese value enormous amounts of hard work, the elderly, education, doing the right thing and have a long and rich history of art and music and religion. I could also offer that Americans really are fat, loud, entitled, and don't work nearly as hard as they think they do?
As long as I have been offensive: I have no idea if atheists as a group give less to charity. I really don't. However, it wouldn't surprise me if they do give less as a group because it takes a certain independent streak to be a public atheist. My personal theory is that charitable works are a social activity (not a bad thing, mind you, just a thing) for many people, so regular church-goers have one more venue that encourages that kind of group activity, especially the collection plate. Heck, even if one never did any other giving, you look like a schmuck if you don't pony up for the collection plate, and if you drop in 5 over 52 weeks a year….
I am married to an atheist who literally gives hundreds every year to charity, by the way. In case there is some suspicion that I dislike atheists or find them morally lacking.